"What you need" and "What you want"

Those two collide often in our Life ,right ?

The Realization of a Man

No man lives without hope , if he do its not living. The humans are the most complicated product of the nature. No animals in the world repeat the same mistake but we humans do . Why ? That is an answer I want to know.

Human civilization have grown past the scientific term "Social Animal" . Because when we look at our society now , do we see the characteristics of a social animal? I doubt it. Humans are selfish no matter where he is born or where is was grown. But when we go above that barrier that when we really become a social animal.

Why we became like this  , I wonder - Did God create us like this ? No, I don't think so . But we chose it for our-self. But why ? Why we chose this . Because we like this  or because we thought we did't have a choice. In my opinion it all came from insecurity we feel about our position in the society because we feel if we are not this , we are nothing , we become losers. The wave of negativity hit the humanity and it never had a positive wave ever since.

Time Goes On

Life is something we understand partly , when we solve one problem another problem rises .

Smile - Small and rare

Smile is the word which describes
the presence of him in her Life.

Nothing else , really mattered her Life ,
expect the time she got with him.

She gave him the strength to conquer the world
while he was the world for her.

When they are together the time did't matter
neither did the world around them.

They were not perfectly matched
but perfectly cut themselves to get matched.

Life was not easy for them together,
but they were ready to face it together.

They were not the ever lasting lovers
but they made the time stop when they were.

Men and Women are not equal

                          I am not here to say man is superior to woman nor vise verse but just to list out some facts I see , so that who ever who read this is not driven false perspective which are thrown on their brains by social waves.

                          When ever something happens which is odd , people do respond but was there an effect ever ? Like Delhi incident , the wave against it was huge and so happening , but did it make any change in reality ? I don't think so , I am writing this because I have theory about that . We all are seeing it from wrong perspective. We are looking at this single incident and ignoring the rest . The solution to this problem does't come in a single pack , it is complicated process where we have social engineer it . Not just hanging the people who do it , Hang or not - I don''t think it will stop incidents like this, because the one who is high in drugs is not going to think about prosecution or anything coming afterwards.

                        Criminals - They are the people who knows that the work they do is not right and punishable , so more cruel punishments is not the best solution for the situations. But reducing the chance of creating criminals and making a good culture .

                        I am not sure why girls are saying they have to be safe everywhere at all times , what makes them man is safe all around the clock everywhere . You are wrong, imagine a man flashing lot of cash and walking through a street which is populated with robbers. Do you think that is safe . So my dear sisters , our culture asked you to be careful is , because you are precious , because you are cared and valued by your loved ones . Understand that before trying to be rebel girl. No one will stop prostitute who is out at mid nit in streets because no one cares about them.

                       And my most important question why women want to do what men do , you cant find somethings of yours ? If the man and woman were the same why even two sex in nature  ? Cant it be mono-sex like most plants ? Human is considered an advanced creature than anything else , right ? So that means the evolution itself chose us to be different . Man and woman , both are essence of humanity , Human race can't move forward with one another right .

                      What I am saying basically is when you call for equality it looks like asking to handle fire and water in the same manner , can we ? No , because they have their difference in behavior. Man are physically and mentally stronger in general , but man cannot be considering , loving and caring as a woman . Right ?

                      Now , lets take examples of great women like Mother Teresa , Helen Keller and Malala Yousafzai . They did't have support of any woman rights organisations. But they were just great and its hard to hide a diamond in mud .

Flow Of Mind

Feelings flows like water in mind , we cant stop it by using a stop board or brick . . .

Water

Flow of water can be stopped by freezing it hence feeling can be , just by making your heart hard.

Not because you are hurt , but not to get hurt again